Finding a Higher Power in Sober Living

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Alcoholism and substance abuse can destroy lives. People suffering from drug addiction prioritize their substance of choice above all else. They let alcohol, opioids, or benzodiazepines take precedence over, friends, family, career, and even health. By letting substances control their whole lives and make decisions for them, alcoholics and addicts turn alcohol and drugs into a “higher power.” 

Part of recovering from drug addiction involves finding a new higher power to replace the old unhealthy one. For many, this concept is difficult to fathom, since getting sober is often imagined as nothing more complicated than detoxing and ending a physical dependence on a drug. However, without finding a new higher power, most people find that they relapse after their individual willpower is depleted.

The concept of a higher power in 12-step programs

Alcoholics Anonymous and the other 12-step programs are modeled after it takes a spiritual approach to recovery. The first step involves recognizing that you are, as an addict, not in control of your own life. It involves recognizing that addiction has overpowered you. The second step involves recognizing that a new higher power could be the help that’s necessary. It is written as follows:

  1. “Came to believe that a power greater than ourselves could restore us to sanity.”

The language about a higher power, which some associate with the concept of “god,” is deliberately vague. That’s because Bill Wilson, one of the founders of AA, envisioned Alcoholics Anonymous as a program that could accommodate members of any faith, even atheists and agnostics. Most people can acknowledge a power greater than themselves. After all, none of us can control the weather, can we?

 By getting people to think in these terms, AA’s recovery program deemphasizes the role of ego and individual will in recovery. This aligns with contemporary scientific research, which has found that willpower plays a very limited role in recovery from substance use disorder.

The third step makes it clear that the concept of a higher power isn’t based on any single religion.

  1. Made a decision to turn our will and our lives over to the care of God as we understood Him.”

The recovery process as understood by 12-step programs involves letting go of control. For those who do not believe in God, the book Alcoholics Anonymous suggests interpreting “higher power” to mean the community of AA. After all, by following the advice of other people who have gotten sober, you’re far more likely to succeed than by going with your own impulses.

Finding a Higher Power in Sober Living

For many people who had religious upbringings as children, the idea of a higher power is not that difficult. This population may find that their 12-step program is enriched by attending church, synagogue, or temple meetings.  For those without religious affiliation, discovering a higher power can be a bit more of a journey. 

Reading about different philosophical and religious practices can help people discover new and unfamiliar concepts of higher power that resonate. There are also plenty of people who practice prayer and meditation but do not have a concrete idea of a higher power that they can readily articulate. For many, the idea of a higher power is more about the process and spiritual journey of seeking one out than it is about choosing the “correct” higher power.

Atheists in recovery

One of the primary reasons that people reject 12-step programs is that they are uncomfortable with the way people throw around the terms “higher power” and “god.” It is important to understand that there are many atheists in recovery who are absolutely welcome in 12-step programs. These atheists have many options. They do not need to choose a religious idea for their higher power. 

Many atheists choose for their higher power a secular concept such as nature, science, the recovery community, or love. Others choose to reject the concept of a higher power entirely. The 12 steps are merely suggestions. The only requirement for membership in Alcoholics Anonymous is a desire to be sober. The specifics of AA’s philosophy and suggested recovery program are entirely optional.

Searching For a Higher Power in Sober Living

For active addicts who understand that their lives are unmanageable, all this talk of finding a higher power might sound hopelessly abstract. By enrolling in a sober living home, they can get the immediate help they need to begin their recovery journey. 

Like many supportive housing environments, Design for Recovery is a sober living home rooted in the 12-steps. Design for Recovery works with recovering addicts and alcoholics of all faiths and stamps to make the process of finding a higher power and recovering from substance use disorder as simple as possible. For more information, read some of the testimonials of our graduates who have achieved long term sobriety.

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David moved to California from his hometown in North Carolina after multiple failed attempts to get sober. While living in an all-male sober living, David started to excel as a leader and mentor. These skills and tools ended up being the catalyst for his recovery and ultimately the foundation he has today. David has a passion for helping young men and sharing his experience. After working in the treatment industry he noticed a serious need for ethical sober living facilities. This prior work experience brought about David’s idea and drive to open Design For Recovery. He’s ambitious to promote growth and change within each individual client that enters the house. David has a strong presence in the house and continues to be part of mentoring young men on a daily basis.

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